Hi, I’m Selena Costantino Miller.

Born in Scotland and raised between Jersey City and the Jersey Shore, I now call the “donut hole” of Hightstown, New Jersey home. After more than a decade of love, I recently married my best friend, Benjamin. Together, we share a wonderfully chaotic blended family of six (ages 20 to 31!) and are proud grandparents to one incredible little guy who lights up our world.

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My journey into officiating began with a full-circle moment—writing and leading the wedding ceremony for my best friend Toni and her husband Chris. I introduced them 20 years ago, so naturally, I called dibs on making it official. That day changed everything for me. I realized how deeply I love helping couples celebrate their love stories in a way that feels real, personal, and unforgettable.

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That’s why my motto is:
Your love. Your way. Your day.

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It’s more than a tagline—it’s my guiding principle. Every couple has a unique story, and I consider it an honor to help bring that to life on one of the most meaningful days you’ll ever share. I’ll bring creativity, heart, and a genuine passion for connection—but it’s your voice, your story, and your love that I’m here to honor.

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A bit more about me:

Outside of weddings, I work as a marketing field manager, which means I get to travel (a dream come true for someone with serious wanderlust!). I’m also a certified FAA flight attendant. When I’m not on the road or writing ceremonies, I’m usually thrifting, redecorating, beach lounging, or discovering a new place. And no matter where life takes me, Sunday dinners with my family are my favorite kind of magic.

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No matter who you are or how you love, my goal is simple: to create a ceremony that feels like you. I can’t wait to meet you, hear your story, and help craft a celebration that’s heartfelt, joyful, and unforgettable—from the very first word to the last “I do.”